From selfish intentions to genuine love

 Nepal: How To Make Millions Before Grandma Dies’ is a moving and heartwarming film that explores the evolving relationship between a grandson and his dying grandmother, whom he calls Amah (Thai for grandmother).

 

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The movie captures a reality in which ageing parents are left alone while their children pursue careers, families, and dreams. The protagonist, M, grows from being a selfish grandson into someone who learns to care for his Amah—even after her passing.

 

This film takes audiences on an emotional rollercoaster, evoking anger, joy, sadness, and comfort. It also serves as a powerful mirror, reflecting the guilt and regret many children feel as they get caught up in the rush of life, neglecting their loved ones.

 

Through Amah’s story, the film reminds us of the joy and comfort our ageing loved ones find when we spend time with them.

 

The movie is also about our materialistic world. It critiques how people prioritise superficial desires, like wealth, over the emotional bonds that matter. At the same time, it highlights the rediscovery of humanity and empathy after being lost in the pursuit of money.

 

The narrative begins and ends in a crematory, a powerful visual metaphor for life’s fleeting nature and the cyclical essence of relationships. In the opening scene, Amah, her younger son, daughter, and M gather to pay respects to their ancestors. Here, Amah expresses her wish to own a suitable plot of land for burial, a desire sparked by the shared crematory they stand in. M, however, remains detached from the ritual, engrossed in his phone as he plays games. Disappointed, Amah calls him Qi-Chou (an insult suggesting carelessness or uselessness).

 

M dropped out of college to pursue a career in gaming. His perspective changes when he learns that his cousin Mui has inherited her grandfather’s wealth. Mui cared for her sick grandfather, fulfilling a “high-paying, easy job”. He sees Mui’s comfortable life after her grandfather’s passing.

 

When Amah is diagnosed with stomach cancer, M sees an opportunity. Driven by greed, he begins caring for her. For the first time, he does things he never imagined doing—making tea for the goddess Amah worships, cleaning her home, tending to her plants, and buying her favourite foods. He even sells his beloved gaming PC to buy Amah items such as a surveillance camera.

 

However, as M spends more time with Amah, a shift begins. What starts as a calculated plan to win her favour slowly turns into something genuine. M starts to understand Amah’s struggles, sacrifices, and resilience. He learns about her simple joys—like running her congee shop at dawn. M’s initial pretence of care gradually fades as he enjoys his time with Amah and cherishes their relationship.

 

The story also highlights Amah’s challenges. Despite her illness, she continues to support her youngest son, who constantly asks for money and even steals from her. M’s anger toward his uncle reflects his growing empathy for Amah.

 

A turning point occurs when Amah discovers M’s plan to sell her house. Though hurt, she does not confront him directly. Instead, she encourages him to focus on building a career and assures him she can care for herself. Her quiet dignity and unwavering love for M add emotional depth to her character.

 

As Amah’s condition worsens, she is hospitalised. It is revealed that she left the house to her younger son, a decision that enrages M. Feeling betrayed, he returns home. However, when the younger son sells the house and places Amah in a nursing home, M has a moment of reckoning. Overcoming his anger, he brings Amah to his home and cares for her—this time with no ulterior motives, only love.

 

After Amah’s passing, M learns of a bank account she had been saving for him since his childhood. Though he once cared for her with selfish intent, the money no longer holds the same value for him. Instead, M uses it to fulfil Amah’s final wish: securing a beautiful burial plot. The film comes full circle, ending at the crematory where the family gathers once again, but everything has changed. Amah is gone, M is now a responsible young man, and the family members, who once seemed disconnected, come together to honour her memory.

 

M’s growth from a selfish grandson into someone caring for his Amah is heartwarming. It reminds us that while our initial intentions may not always be pure, simply showing up and being there for someone can mean the world to them. Amah’s joy in M’s presence—even when he was acting out of greed—shows how much our ageing loved ones value our love.

 

The film’s cinematography, visuals, and sound design deserve special mention. The soothing background score complements the emotional highs and lows. The aesthetics, from the small congee shop to the creaky old house, add to the film’s charm and authenticity, making it visually appealing and emotionally impactful.

 

‘How to Make Millions Before Grandma Dies’ is more than just a film—it’s a gentle yet powerful reminder of the value of family, love, and presence. It encourages us to pause amidst our busy lives and reconnect with those who once gave us everything. Through M’s transformation, the film conveys that personal growth often comes from unexpected relationships.

 

While the story begins with greed, it ends with love, redemption, and fulfilling Amah’s final wish. The movie stays with you long after the credits roll, leaving you with teary eyes and a renewed sense of responsibility and appreciation for the people who matter most.

 

How To Make Millions Before Grandma Dies

 

Director: Pat Boonnitipat

 

Starring: Putthipong Assarantanakul, Usha Seamkhum, Sanya Kunakorn

 

Duration: 125 minutes

 

Language: Thai

 

Available: Netflix, Apple TV

 

Year: 2024