Purainik patta, jhilmil latta, tahi chade baisali Bishari mata
Haath supari khoicha paan Bishari karti shubh kalyan
Goddess Bishari, seated on a lotus
leaf, holding a betel nut in hand and paan in her sari, showers us with her
blessings
The song is dedicated to Bishari, the snake goddess who is
believed to save people bitten by a snake. These days the whole of the Mithila
region is vibrant with echoes of songs like the one above. Moreover, nachari (a type of folk music) and
folklore are performed on the streets, in gardens and in people’s homes. The
lives of newly married women are agog with excitement, curiosity and enjoyment.
Mithila
culture is diverse in terms of tradition, rituals and lifestyle. One such
unique festival is Madhushravani, a 15-day ritual that newlywed women
participate in. The festival is celebrated throughout the
This
year too, the Madhushravani festival is poised to be celebrated with great enthusiasm.
This year, it started on July 7 and will conclude on August 19. Additional days
to the festival have been added because of the leap year.
During
the ritual, women of Brahmin, Kayastha, Sonar and Dev castes fast throughout
the day for around two weeks. On the final day of the ritual which has largely
been a subject of debate the knees of the women are brought in contact with
fire in a practice called ‘temi.’ This sometimes leads to burning on the skin
and results in a wound.
Historically, it is believed that the bigger the wound on a
woman’s knee, the longer her husband’s life will be.
However,
this is being contested these days. Women’s rights activists have been raising
their voices, saying it is wrong to continue such painful practices. They argue
that human beings should not be pushed into enduring such cruel rituals in the
name of tradition. Many believe the festival as a whole needs to be abolished.
There
are also many women who want the festival to evolve in a way that doesn’t
result in women going through pain. They say that it is best to transform some
parts of the rituals in a pragmatic way so that the festival could be even more
meaningful for its followers.
Thus,
it has now become more common to practice ‘shital temi,’ where the ritual is
practised without fire. Even if fire is used, they just bring an oil lamp close
to women’s knees before quickly moving it away.
Besides the ‘temi’ ritual, many Maithil women have a positive view of the
festival. Bharati Choudhary, a member of Sakhi-Bahinapa, a women-lead
organisation, argues, “In other cultures, they have a honeymoon, but in ours,
we have Madhushravani.”
Adding
to Choudhary’s views, writer Poonam Jha says, “Along with justifying
traditional and religious values, this festival also brings forth human values.
Celebrating this festival means preserving our people’s cultural heritage and
identity.”
Madhushravani
is believed to have been established during ancient times to ease newly married
women into their married life. Women dress up in bridal clothes, collect
seasonal flowers and leaves of trees, and put them in baskets made of bamboo.
They also worship Lord Shiva with his consort Gauri daily, and the senior-most
woman in the family called bidkari narrates
stories daily during the period.
A
distinctive feature of this festival is that women have to read different holy
stories and sing hymns daily. Similarly, they also have to worship Naga
(serpent) gods, Gauri, Surya (the sun), Chandrama (the moon) and Navagrah (the
nine planets).
The
festival also aims to build awareness about the environment. Plants such as
juhi (jasmine) and maina (taro) are used in the rituals to signify their
importance in sustaining the culture.
The
stories told throughout the festival make Madhushavani all the more fun. Of the
many stories relating to Shiva narrated during the festival, one goes: Once,
Shiva and Parvati, deeply in love, were playing in the water. In a fit of
excitement, Shiva placed his semen on the leaves of five lotuses.
Out of the leaves, five Nagakanyas (female serpent deities) were
born. Shiva often stepped out to spend time with his daughters. Once, Parvati,
unaware of the situation, spotted him playing with the girls, became angry and
raised her foot to crush them. That’s when Shiva revealed the truth.
Another
version says that the girls were created from Shiva’s hair that fell into the
water of
Another
folk story of intrigue from the Shiva Puran (a Sanskrit text) is that of
Behula, the devout wife who travelled to the heavens on a raft to successfully
save her husband, Lakhindar, after a snake bite. This story is also performed
as a play to appease the serpent goddess Manasa.
Many
of the folktales of Mithila also impart knowledge about the importance of
nature for human survival. Thus, the festival is an amalgamation of kala, katha and vrat (art, stories and fasting).
The
Madhushravani festival underlines the importance of relationships and the
respect a new entrant to the family the bride or the groom deserves. The bride
stays with her parents and, in some communities, even the husband goes and
stays with his in-laws.
Nityanand Mandal
kathmandupost
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